When you are listed on a sex offender registry, it's for life, a sanction that requires the offender to be in regular contact with the authorities, to allow searches of his home every 90 days and to live far from schools, parks and other public places. His probation will also require him to stay off the Internet, even though you may need it, for a job.
your own hell, for the rest of your life.
His offense involved sexual experimentation, as kids, when him and his younger brother were watching porn, on their mother's cable TV, when she fell asleep. They were able to not only view straight porn, but gay porn, which gave them the idea of experimenting. Jeff has said he only tried anal sex, on his younger brother a couple times, but his brother said it hurt, so he stopped.
I had asked him if his brother had to go to the hospital, but he said he didn't. They only did it a couple times and then stopped. Jeff was more interested in girls.
When he was about 6, a 19 yr old female babysitter had molested him. She took her clothes off and his and fondled him and let him touch her private areas. It may have been part of what got him interested in girls at such a young age.
Since he believed a lot of what he saw on TV, he thought when someone poured clear liquid on a cloth and held it over someones nose and mouth, making them pass out, it was rubbing alcohol. I told him it was probably some kind of anesthesia, like either.
In one of his foster homes, he had made friends, with a disabled boy, whom had a 13yr old girl watching him, until his parents got home, from work. Jeff became friends with him and the boy was always egging Jeff on, telling him the girl really liked him.
Jeff was going to try and put the girl to sleep, so he could have sex with her, but got scared and never went through with it, but someone saw him and called the police. They arrested him and he ended up in jail. When he went to court, the girl wouldn't press charges, she just wanted to see him get the help he needed. Even though the girl did not want to press charges, the State of Wisconsin did anyway.
While he was in treatment, the others in the group kept bringing up his brother's name, until Jeff finally realized they had found out what had happened a couple years before. He admitted he had done it, so now they had his confession and since he was older, they could charge him with a sex crime, since nothing worked out with the young girl.
Now began his nightmare of being convicted a Sex Offender and all the discrimination, which comes with it. The Sex Offender Registry was meant to keep violent sex offenders away from kids, but with their overreach, they included so many others, who really didn't deserve to be labeled a sex offender.